Rectifying FAILURE   AND    MISTAKES

• -People rarely feel good about themselves for being unkind to others.
• –  Hatred seems to be its own punishment.
• – Success is going through failure to failure without loosing enthusiasm.
• – Put failure in correct perspective. People do not fail they give up trying.
• – Having low esteem is worse than failure.
• – Failures should be dealt as delays to our success.
• – Failure is an event not aperson. Being defeated is a temporary condition giving up is what makes it permanent.
• – If mistakes use to be made , better that they be a leftist than rightist. – Mao
• – Socialist weeds are better than capitalists wheat. – Mao
• – I graduated from the university of outlers.     – Mao
• – Stupidity has a certain amount of  charm – ignorance  does not   – Frak Zappa.
• – I am not unhappy about the mistakes . They help me none my insticts.
• – Failure seldom stops you .what stops you is the fear of failure.
• – Error is an essential step in the process of finding the right answer.

The real question: does one take time to think about one’s mistake & rectify it.

• – A car without a reverse gear would be banded in the roads.
• – A man’s errors  are histor portals of discovery.
• – Think systematically about your own mistake.
• – Mistakes will be your life long companion better lear to manage it, avoid it and sometimes discard it. But you have a choice whether to approach your error in terror or make a honest approach to reach to the truth.
• – Never ever break 4 things: Trust  + Promise  + Relations  + Heart. They dont make noise but pains a lot!!!
• – A failure uses up as much of energy in his failing as a successful uses in succeeding.

 Dealing with Negative Feelings: emotions

• Most of us have much more control on our thinkings feelings than we think.
• – Define your danger zone: make strategies to cope with them.
• – Never ever take a person’s dignity. It is worth everything to them & nothing to you.        Manage your weak points.
• – Few conflicts are equal .   Hatred seems to be its own punishment.
• – Resist any sign of self pity: be as ruthless as possible with yourself.
• – Do not magnify your mistakes. Do not show all your problems.
• – When you have a big project: nibble at edge, roce holes in it.
• – Like one day at a time : Avoid duel mental pressure.
• – Tame the childs in you, say no to her when she is  mischierious.
• Discipline yourself: never punish yourself. Never say/do anything when angry
• Remember,worry kills more than work.
• – Think as much as possible in terms of what you can do and as little as possible about how you feel.

NEGATIVE IS PART & POSITIVE IS  WHOLE.

• – Taking control does not mean denying your feelings or sppressing. It means trying to know your feelings: it is ability to notice when you are choosing or allowing yourself to feel the way you went so that you can take control of it later on.
• – Once you accept misery as a choice then you will look for better choice.
• – Really reverse pain is a great spar to rapid learning.
• – Pay attention to your enemies for they are the first one to discover your mistakes.  No one can hurt you without your consent.
• – Character is what you are in the dark.
• – The man who has not made mistakes is either a fool or a coward. The only way to stop grumbling in to work and be worthy of notice.

Struggle is Permanent Unity is Always Temporary.

• – Welcome obstackles as friends, they provide fuel for self motivation.
• – Waiting time consumes a lot of energy. Lazy people take the most pains.
• – Depression feeds on inertia, action is its natural enemy.
• – See one has won even when one has lost because one tried it.
•  – Sin is seeing nearsightedly.